How to get the woman of your dreams
How to get the woman of your dreams
Could this post be one of the most anticipated that I have ever done hmmm maybe? What kind of juicy Easter eggs do I have hidden out back for all you thirsty and lonely singles. Stay tuned and find out, unless you have already thrown in the towel on ever finding that special someone who can brighten up your day and night. I have always been a curious type of person, not a true introvert, but I do think about many situations that people deal with from virtually everywhere on earth. So, this is what my wild intuitive mind has been coming to grips with, how to attract a woman but not just any woman a special woman. Ok, ok I know the PC police are going to catch me and put me in jail stating that all women are special. I will agree but only because you have me at knife point lol, I kid. I will clarify how to attract a specific woman that you have been looking for all your life. This woman outside of your mom and family members is the most special woman that you have ever touched but you know her smile and every freckle on her face. You've spent many nights playfully enjoying her companionship, yet you wake up frustrated and alone. You boldly caress her and whisper sweet nothings with warm passions in her adorable ears, yet the room is cold, and time sits still. Every night you boldly sigh and gleam sacrificing your sanity for a wanton dream. She dances around your head full of steam if only you could capture her the woman of your dreams.
What does it take for the average person to get what they desire most in this life? I believe it takes a courageous and honest person to know this answer. Someone who can face their fears and accept rejection and above all else are truly honest about who they are and what they want. Are you such a person if so then this article may not be for you because you would already have everything that your heart desires? No, this article is for the rest of us who go through life as if in a pitch-black room with blindfolds on trying to find the door. There it is I said it, deep down we are all pretty damn pathetic. We have developed awe-inspiring advancements and yet we fail to effectively communicate when it means the most. We take life for granted then we suffer for it with regrets, we all have them sooner or later. Being honest with ourselves is just the first step to getting back on track but how do we do that and who the hell are we? Yep, after decades and decades, we still don't really know who we are yet and what we actually want. We think we know ourselves, yet this next statement will be one of the truest things you will ever read (Deep down inside exits the true us tucked away safe so nobody sees who we really are) If this statement is true then how will we ever experience true joy and happiness better yet unrequited love. This is why only courageous person doesn't let what has come before shackling them to the floor of expectations. This person walks boldly unashamed about who they are deep down inside and are honest free and happy. These people have the ultimate confidence in themselves and their ability to achieve every task they set out to accomplish, they lead by example.
The confidence game is the hottest in town. Not too many women desire a companion that would be considered a pathetic loser. So, all of us out here in single land need to step our game up or grow old and alone. So how do you build self-confidence? Let's start by defining self-confidence as trusting in one abilities, qualities, and judgments. So, the bigger question to ask is do you trust yourself? Show of hands how many of you know you are no good and can't be trusted. Kind of like R. Kelly at a Miss Teen Beauty Pageant, no good can come of this...LOL. So, you need to become trustworthy even if you are a low-life mentally conniving slithering snake with no backbone because snakes don't have backbones LOL. (Ladies can thank me later about 1:00 am you know that's the creeping hour LOL) All jokes aside you will have to start making sound judgments and decisions. You will need to start believing in yourself, not like a certain VP who laughs when asked to have you visit the border. You will need to exude confidence and watch how many women will notice.
Knowing who you are and what you want is essentially vital if you want to attract the woman of your dreams. If you like to do certain activities, then perhaps your better half should enjoy these things as well. If you are sensitive (hey I get it some women find that crap cute, but I say get over that Sh-t) Having a good heart and being affectionate will help but don't be a (simp). Be kind to the woman that you would like to spend time with getting to know her. Above all things don't take her for granted (big mistake) Have you heard of Sancho if not you will if you don't treat that woman right. I actually know him personally he writes a blog on Blogger and posts on Twitter, LOL. I kid I'm only Sancho on Friday to Sunday mornings ha-ha. Getting back on the topic the more you know about what you like and what you are attracted to will help you find that special someone.
Get out of your comfort zone. so many of us build this invisible wall and nobody can be let in. Yea we have all been hurt or betrayed at some point this is part of life, get over it. The longer you keep picking at old wounds the longer it takes for them to heal. Life is about the journey, not the destination, you need to enjoy your life spend as much time figuring out what makes you happy, and then pursue that. Seems pretty simple doesn't it then why are you not doing it? We spend way too much time worrying about what other people may think about us. The life you have is yours no one else's you need to be happy, and you need to be happy today not tomorrow. Let other people find their own slice of life and stop delaying your own happiness. Don't be a people pleaser there are no awards for these just empty parts of what real life should be a true facade.
Now if you have been paying any attention to this blog you should have noticed this one thing by now. The simple fact is that to get the woman of your dreams you actually need to dream. You need to be deliberate with your intentions, she is out there just waiting for the right version of you to show up and court her. Ask yourself this what type of woman would I be excited to spend time with? What type of conversations would we have? Always be specific? How will I feel when I spend time with this woman? How can I make this woman feel special? As you ask yourself these questions in your mind you have started a process like a Rolodex of women who fit a special criterion that only you know. Close your eyes and focus on the woman that you think is the woman of your dreams. If you want to get her, you need to focus your energy to think only positive thoughts and when you really believe deep down in your secret space that she can be yours and that you will do anything for her then. Yes, then you will create the events that will bring into your world the women of your dreams.
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